My voice is too soft, and I’m 21.
Monday, October 12th, 2009I have a question? My voice is very low. I can’t talk loud. It is the big problem for me. I don’t know what to do. It is getting 5 years that I am like this. Please answer for me what to do.
Answer: Dear Haseeb,
I’m going to ask that you respond to my posting in the comment box below to clarify any points that need clarification. The reason that I ask this of you is that I’m not sure that I have enough information from you to be of appropriate help.
I will interpret what I think you mean by your first statement: “my voice is very low.” Rather than assuming that you have a low voice in pitch (like a bass singer), I think you mean that it is difficult for you to make yourself heard easily. Your voice is too soft. I assume this because of what you say next, “I can’t talk loud.” Not only that, you have had this “condition” since you were about 16 years of age.
From my perspective two things are needful:
1. You need to see an expert voice teacher, and SPEAK with him/her, so the s/he can discern the cause of your “softness of speech” and thereby see if there seems to be a medical problem with your voice, or, whether it is simply a matter of training your voice to operate efficiently. I would guess that unless you have had some kind of “accident” or sustained an injury to your neck and throat, that you simply need to learn how to use your voice, strengthening it in the process.
2. Once you are assured that there is no medical problem with your voice, you would do well to begin a regimen of vocal exercises, perhaps guided by a reputable voice teacher, by which you can learn to strengthen your voice, and begin to produce a clear resonant sound.
Haseeb, I know that I have not answered your question as you probably had hoped. However, to do what you want I would have to be able to hear you myself. Then I could tell you precisely what exercises might be appropriate for you, to learn how to produce a consistently clear sound when you speak. You are right to think that by age 21 you should be able to do that. If you live in Northwest Georgia, look me up and give me a call. I’d be glad to help you. I understand your frustration.
Best wishes.